You can’t make big changes in your life without making a BIG change. We weren’t happy with how our lives were going. We could stick with the stability and accept we would never truly be happy, the safe bet. Or we could do something really crazy hoping that maybe it would work out. What’s the worst that can happen? We go back to the situation we started in? Nothing is lost (just our life savings and dignity). A chance at a better life was all we needed to go for it. A chance was better than no chance. We are still far from stability, but, we are getting there. We have spent the last two years completely free, running our own schedule, traveling the world, and being there for our son. It allowed us to afford IVF and have our rainbow baby. It’s allowed us to pay for a school that Leo loves and which allows us to do the job we have created. Im a huge believer that you can create any type of reality with a bit of luck, a lot of balls and a little delulu 🙃