Nikki Tomlin

Finding Support After a Breakup

“You’re living proof that my fears aren’t real.” The more I share about my journey through life including a breakup after a long relationship, embracing being a woman, and generally navigating this life the more meaningful conversations I’m having with you all. One of them even led to the above quote. My new friend said this to me after we chatted about navigating a breakup and i immediately started crying. I remember wanting so bad to know someone who had been through what I was feeling in ending my last relationship and instead found people who told me to tough it out and stay in the relationship because “all men are like that.” I eventually realized that I would rather be alone than be where I was and have since found so many amazing people that would never encourage me to stay in any situation I wasn’t happy with. Now I get to be this person for so many of you and I feel a new level of fulfillment in encouraging you to strive towards anything that makes you happy! So thank you for supporting me and being a light and inspiration in my life 🫶🏻✨ What’s a life change you’re hesitant to make?

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