The Problem Is Rarely the Problem

The problem is rarely the problem. - This is a lesson I continue to learn but is especially valid for these times. Your current reality or situation no matter how bad is usually only about 10% of the issue. The other 90% is all in your head. - We create problems to be bigger than they really are in our own minds and then stress ourselves out about it, when really there’s usually a simple solution. Not always but a lot of times. - As an example, I had about $7k worth of camera gear stolen a few days ago. I also didn’t have the right insurance to cover theft. Could I have let that ruin my day and week? Absolutely! Could I be pissed off and play the victim card. Yup. But I didn’t, partially because I find that self pity is not healthy and I can’t change the situation. The solution is simple, find a way to make some extra money to make up for it. But there was another aspect to the equation. - In addition to all the amazing support I received from you guys and friends that called etc. @abby_hawaii also brought over ice cream and supported me through spending time. I think when you have friends (or in this case a girlfriend) who can support you in a way to see the potential opportunities instead of perpetuating a negative mindset it makes all the difference. - If you don’t have that, I encourage you to look for it in a friend because although truth hurts sometimes, it’s the best thing for you. People that don’t let you stay down are a rare find so when you find it make sure you nurture that relationship and do the same for them. - The problem is rarely the problem, but people help you through it. - Be blessed and stay stoked 😎🤙 - • • • • • • #hawaii #passionpassport #nakedhawaii #eclectic_shotz #earthfocus #sunset #adventureculture #nature #earthpix #neverstopexploring #stayandwander #travel #awesomeearth #旅行 #sonyalpha #soft_vision #roamtheplanet #beautifuldestinations #bestvacations #ourplanetdaily #景色 #travelstoke #自然