Don't Call Yourself a Failure
You know what word I hate? Failure. š¢
šHate is a strong word. You donāt let your kids say it. I feel about āfailureā the same way.
Yet, Iāve had several friends this week tell me that theyāre failing at something.
Theyāve failed their kids at homeschool last semester.
Theyāve failed at their exerciseā¦ cleaningā¦ etc.
Failed their plans they made months ago when they didnāt know how life would be right now.
Donāt get me wrong.
Failure happens. Things will go wrong.. often.
Iām not for pansy awards for showing up.
šHowever, that does not make YOU a failure.
Your checklists didnāt all get checked? No one sees them but you.
You didnāt clean 30 minutes every afternoon? No one in your house cares.
Your kid got a B and worked his butt off? Celebrate and remember it doesnāt reflect on your mothering skills.
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Give yourself grace.
Find a friend who will remind you of the truth of the awesomeness that you are.
Weāre hardest on ourselvesā¦ and our kids.
Youāre awesome. Your kids are awesome.
šYou wouldnāt tell your kid that theyāre a failure.
šDonāt tell your kidās mom that in the mirror.
If you need someone to remind youā¦
šFind me.
If you have a friend who needs the reminderā¦
šSend this to then.
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Ironically, Iām chatting with @wildridetravelfam Friday about mom failureā¦ Check us out live Friday morning!
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(Photo from my babyā¦ 2017 š„° )
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