Reclaiming Wonders

Don't Call Yourself a Failure

You know what word I hate? Failure. šŸ˜¢ šŸ›‘Hate is a strong word. You donā€™t let your kids say it. I feel about ā€œfailureā€ the same way. Yet, Iā€™ve had several friends this week tell me that theyā€™re failing at something. Theyā€™ve failed their kids at homeschool last semester. Theyā€™ve failed at their exerciseā€¦ cleaningā€¦ etc. Failed their plans they made months ago when they didnā€™t know how life would be right now. Donā€™t get me wrong. Failure happens. Things will go wrong.. often. Iā€™m not for pansy awards for showing up. šŸ‘‰However, that does not make YOU a failure. Your checklists didnā€™t all get checked? No one sees them but you. You didnā€™t clean 30 minutes every afternoon? No one in your house cares. Your kid got a B and worked his butt off? Celebrate and remember it doesnā€™t reflect on your mothering skills. . Give yourself grace. Find a friend who will remind you of the truth of the awesomeness that you are. Weā€™re hardest on ourselvesā€¦ and our kids. Youā€™re awesome. Your kids are awesome. šŸ›‘You wouldnā€™t tell your kid that theyā€™re a failure. šŸ›‘Donā€™t tell your kidā€™s mom that in the mirror. If you need someone to remind youā€¦ šŸ‘‰Find me. If you have a friend who needs the reminderā€¦ šŸ‘‰Send this to then. . . Ironically, Iā€™m chatting with @wildridetravelfam Friday about mom failureā€¦ Check us out live Friday morning! . (Photo from my babyā€¦ 2017 šŸ„° ) . . . .

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