Finding Myself Through Sobriety

Are you your favorite person? ✨ After spending one year boy sober and breaking myself down in ways I’m proud of and in ways I’m not (I needed both to grow though), I’m pretty surprised that I wouldn’t mind continuing in that sobriety simply to keep getting to know myself. However, there is a lot to learn in relationships too. After my first trip to Hawaii I never thought I’d be back making new memories with new friends in places I once explored with an ex. It was bizarre to walk the same beaches and drive the same roads and watch my memories map themselves in parallel universes. But I broke myself down and made me my favorite person so my memories in places with different versions of me can all exist to make present me the happiest version of me yet. The work is hard and never ending but always worth it!