Nikki Tomlin

Prioritizing Self-Love

And that’s on putting yourself first. If you watch my stories you’ve seen me talk about my previous relationship in a way that was simply “we aren’t together anymore” which has been where I needed to keep it until recently. Obviously, things changed massively when I ended this relationship and it was a lot for me to process. It has been 8 months since I decided to leave and those 8 months have been exhilarating, dark, vibrant, everything in between and beyond that, but most of all, mine. My entire adult life has been wrapped up in big things like college, relationships, moving across the country, and moving to another country. I’ve done a really good job at letting everything be a distraction from dealing with myself, my problems, and being who I am vs who I’ve been expected to be. The end of this relationship was the start to my biggest project yet, me. It’s not easy choosing yourself and it hasn’t been easy for me to wake up everyday and not want to find distractions but y’all I’m telling you, being who I am and finding new versions of who I want to be has been a beautiful journey and I’m happy to be sharing a bit more of mine with you. ❤️💫 It’s ok to love someone else but love yourself more.

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