Be the Right One

Stop looking for the right one. - Our culture is obsessed with this concept. Maybe it’s from romanticized music and movies, or maybe it’s from social pressure, but we stress ourselves out trying to find the right job, the right companion, the right place to live, etc. - What if instead we focused on BEING THE RIGHT ONE. It’s a paradigm shift. It requires us to take full responsibility for our actions. But it also attracts the types of people and situations that are good for us. - In our minds It’s a lot harder for us to change ourselves than it is to find someone that is willing to put up with our crap. Newsflash. That’s not their job. Maybe you’re too high maintenance and you need to work on that. Maybe you have certain quirks that turn people off that can be changed with intentional adjustments over time. Or maybe you’re not as qualified for your dream job as you think. Just because you went to 4 years of college, doesn’t mean that you now have a free pass to life. - The best leaders attract, they don’t beg and they don’t manipulate. People want to be around them because they have IT and they don’t even have to mention a word about it. Focus on being the right one and watch as your opportunities shift. - Be blessed and stay stoked😎🤙