Finding Healing in Relationships
little appreciation post and story time if you care to read 😋
Here’s the deal:
I’ve always been fiercely independent. I moved to LA at 17 without knowing a single person and again to Colorado at 22 completely on a whim
I’m self sufficient to a fault (I’ve learned it’s a lil trauma response 🙃)
But I have always deep down wished for safety, consistency and calm
The things that drew me to this guy early on are not the things I love most know. I think my body knew deep down that it was right for reasons my brain didn’t
I’ve learned the difference between codependence and interdependence with lots of messy confusion in between
So the point is I guess, that in a world of lone wolf mentality, I’ve found that relationships, just like the mountains and the ocean, impact our well-being and can regulate and heal as much as they can harm
Have you found healing in your relationships lately? (friends count too!)
Post inspo : @jennajudd_
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