Overcoming Our Own Worst Enemy

Are you your own worst enemy? - I think to often we blame our situations on outside forces or other people when in reality, the biggest determining factor is ourselves. - I know it’s looked down upon to say this, but a single bad decision is the start of you becoming your worst enemy. A decision turns into a repeated decision, which turns into a habit, which turns into a lifestyle, which determines your life. - Every alcoholic starts with one sip. Every cheater starts with one conversation, the list goes on. More often than not, we are our own worst enemy, we just don’t admit it. But it’s not just the dramatic decisions. It’s also ones like choosing to play video games for 3 hrs a day, or not eating healthy food consistently. So if you find yourself repeatedly making decisions that negatively impact you, how do you stop the pattern? - Every decision starts with a pitch. There’s an internal dialogue in your head that weighs the potential good vs bad on most decisions. You have to become conscious of that and enter the conversation. You’d be surprised how many stupid things and excuses you give yourself for doing something and often times you have to because there’s tension. You have to give yourself an excuse to reconcile why you’re doing it, which is almost always a telltale sign that you shouldn’t do it. Changing a decision is about will power. You have to want to change. - Stop the pattern today by making one decision against your old self. It’s not easy, but if you’re consistent, you’ll change the direction of your life forever. - Be blessed and stay stoked 😎🤙 - • • • • • • #hawaii #passionpassport #nakedhawaii #eclectic_shotz #earthfocus #sunset #adventureculture #nature #earthpix #neverstopexploring #stayandwander #travel #awesomeearth #旅行 #sonyalpha #soft_vision #roamtheplanet #beautifuldestinations #bestvacations #ourplanetdaily #景色