Balancing Self and Others' Opinions

Not caring what people think is probably the worst advice of the 21st century. - If you don’t live under a rock, I’m sure you’ve heard it at least once. “Follow your dreams and don’t care what people say.” Well #1 some people’s opinions are actually valid and helpful, and #2 it’s pretty impossible to not at least take notice to what people say, especially significant people in your life or the majority. - It’s ok to care about what people think of you but it’s not ok to be controlled by it. There’s a distinction. Don’t fall into the trap of ignoring everyone for the sake of a “pure mindset” because, quite frankly it’s a lost cause. Instead filter out what’s usable information and apply it. - Be blessed and stay stoked 😎🤙 - • • • • • • #hawaii #passionpassport #nakedhawaii #eclectic_shotz #earthfocus #sunset #adventureculture #nature #earthpix #neverstopexploring #stayandwander #travel #awesomeearth #旅行 #sonyalpha #soft_vision #roamtheplanet #beautifuldestinations #bestvacations #ourplanetdaily #景色