You Don't Need a Partner to Live Your Dream Adventures
Public Service Announcement for all women š«¶š¼
You do NOT need a man to live the adventure of your dreams!
Iād like to clear up something that keeps arising. You do not need a boyfriend/partner to be adventurous and do the things that are calling to you. I have been adventuring solo, with friends, in AND OUT of a relationship, & introducing my existing long-time hobbies to my BF. Hobbies I spent years practicing single AND in my relationship, on my own.
Please stop waiting to begin your life until you have your partner. BECOME the person you want to be with. You are the person youāll be in the most important relationship of your life with - The relationship you have with yourself. Until you love yourself and the life YOU have built for yourself, you can never truly be a partner to another.
Supporting Evidence of your ability to live out YOUR adventure with or without a partner:
Backpacked through Central America for 3 months - SOLO
Rafted 21 days down the CO river with friends canyoneering and hiking all the while - SOLO
Am teaching him about Canyoneering
Roped him into climbing years after Iād been at it
Captained a self-guided 4 woman mountaineer team up Mt Rainier. Climbed Mt Baker, Adams, countless other peaks with friends - partnerless
Guided him into backpacking, camping & hiking
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Encouraged him to start sailing
Fished and dived the Florida keys for a week con amigos
Have been off-roading for 10 years in a jeep (am teaching him)
Learned to ski and took international ski trips - with girlfriends
Brought 6 Dungeness crabs š¦ I caught to his place for him to cook us on one of our first 4 dates.
I could go on and onā¦ and you'll be able to too
Please stop thinking that if a woman is out there chasing her dreams, growing, and being strong, she can only do it with a guy by her side. Youāre just as capable of āsaving yourself and him.ā
A supportive partner is just the icing - your life is the cake you have to bake yourself
With so much love and support
- Your friend whoās lived it, and wants you to start your own love story - with your life